| Aug 16 2008 20:41 PM | Post #117 |
This is my first time coming to your page.
I already know who's the liar and it isn't you. Want to know how I know? Because the person that is the victim ALWAYS starts a web site FIRST because they are deeply upset. Instead of doing something short of murder, they set up a website where they can take their frustrations out in the only way they knew how. YOU were the first one to set up this site which means you are telling the truth. The people that have something to hide, NEVER start a website. All they do is sit on their butts and lie behind closed doors.
Why is it the victims always get accused? Don't listen to those stupid people out there. I am STILL in your shoes!!
You were the first one to start this site because you were truly hurting and loved your child.
As for those haters.. SHUT UP!!
I requested you on myspace my friend. You are loved (even though we just met). Praying for your sons return.
| Aug 15 2008 0:40 AM | Post #116 |
| Jul 11 2008 2:55 AM | Post #115 |
Please provide us with your research and the site(s) in support of your claim that "most" fathers who aren't married to the mother of their child(ren) don't provide support. As well, the same supporting the stats in comparison to those of married and divorced fathers.
Google: Steve Baskerfield's stats on Fathers who are not married to their child(rens) mother.
*Let's dispell the ignorant myth about "most" don't provide financial support, etc. So to be apprised per future reference.
FYI: Did you know---There are married fathers and divorced fathers who would do well if the same stats were true about them.
Learning to be Self Reliant:
Women/Mothers can also provide finacial support. They have the ability to plan ahead and prepare within the 9 months as well. Looking for resources and supports are more easily found via internet access than ever before.
Mothers, regardless of marital status and the fathers financial support, would be wise to take steps in becoming more self reliant if not already. What empowerment and what great role modeling for a child.
Damage--Please Share Your Research:
Could you also share with us and provide your research and reference site(s) of actual cases, regarding "the damage experienced by children who have been returned to their Father/parent(s)/family of Origin"
As well, providing the same regarding children kidnapped v. mainstreaming back to their Father/Parent(s) and their Family of Origin, along with Causations, Results and Prognosis.
Next, please provide us with research on the Primal Wound, Attachment and Reactive Attachment Disorder and Mentalness, along with Causation, Results and Prognosis
Then, plug in Eriksons "Stages of Development" thoughout the life span and Maslow's "Hierarchy of Needs" and provide us with your research which compares and contrasts these theories in human growth and development, with all the above.
As well as, how they relate to all the above in regards to: Causation, Results and Prognosis.
Further, to which supports your research regarding "the damage experienced" in it's relation to what Cody's little girl will personally experience once she is returned to him (her father) and her Paternal Family of Origin.
And, in such terms of the same regarding: Causation, Results and Prognosis.
Thank you
| Jul 11 2008 2:47 AM | Post #114 |
Please provide us with your research and the site(s) in support of your claim that "most" fathers who aren't married to the mother of their child(ren) don't provide support. As well, the same supporting the stats in comparison to those of married and divorced fathers.
Google: Steve Baskerfield's stats on Fathers who are not married to their child(rens) mother.
*Let's dispell the ignorant myth about "most" don't provide financial support, etc. So to be apprised per future reference.
FYI: Did you know---There are married fathers and divorced fathers who would do well if the same stats were true about them.
Learning to be Self Reliant:
Women/Mothers can also provide finacial support. They have the ability to plan ahead and prepare within the 9 months as well. Looking for resources and supports are more easily found via internet access than ever before.
Mothers, regardless of marital status and the fathers financial support, would be wise to take steps in becoming more self reliant if not already. What empowerment and what great role modeling for a child.
Damage--Please Share Your Research:
Could you also share with us and provide your research and reference site(s) of actual cases, regarding "the damage experienced by children who have been returned to their Father/parent(s)/family of Origin"
As well, providing the same regarding children kidnapped v. mainstreaming back to their Father/Parent(s) and their Family of Origin, along with Causations, Results and Prognosis.
Next, please provide us with research on the Primal Wound, Attachment and Reactive Attachment Disorder and Mentalness, along with Causation, Results and Prognosis
Then, plug in Eriksons "Stages of Development" thoughout the life span and Maslow's "Hierarchy of Needs" and provide us with your research which compares and contrasts these theories in human growth and development, with all the above.
As well as, how they relate to all the above in regards to: Causation, Results and Prognosis.
Further, to which supports your research regarding "the damage experienced" in it's relation to what Cody's little girl will personally experience once she is returned to him (her father) and her Paternal Family of Origin.
And, in such terms of the same regarding: Causation, Results and Prognosis.
Thank you
| Jul 11 2008 0:01 AM | Post #113 |
| May 14 2008 11:46 AM | Post #112 |
. I should of come on to this site months ago, and I am very glad you put it up-you know how I feel-how much this whole situation makes me furious for all of you-and I just want you to get the baby back and have the peace and closure you deserve. I am very sorry you have been hurt by the sinister adoption industry too. Just keep fighting and I know someday this child will be in your arms where she belongs.... 
| Apr 25 2008 8:30 AM | Post #111 |
Sorry I been away for awhile; but know you are always in thoughts, and prayers
Sending you lots of positive energy, and hugs. Kell
| Apr 10 2008 20:01 PM | Post #110 |
| Apr 07 2008 19:12 PM | Post #109 |
| Mar 10 2008 23:58 PM | Post #108 |
Also surrogacy is not that simple and can be just as complicated as adoption. The laws vary from state to state. Did you know in some states the surrogate can get partial custody of the baby even if she is only the host(i.e. not biological related to the child) because she is the legal mother and birthmother.
What needs to happen is people who adopt need to be more open to taking older kids; kids/babies of different races, siblings groups, etc the majority of people want white healthy infants that is the problem. These kids/babies are out there and deserve a loving home and parents just as much as any healthy white infant/young child.
| Mar 05 2008 8:13 AM | Post #107 |
I just have more of a belief that there wouldnt be so many stories like these if more infertile couples chose other methods besides adoption...like surrogacy. Especially if a woman and her husband want to experience the miracle of pregnancy and birth...most surrogates will allow the 'parents' to be there through all of it.
Thats my only point, i didnt mean to offend.
| Mar 04 2008 15:13 PM | Post #106 |
I am in favor of birthfather rights because I want to adopt children whose parents for one reason or another feel strongly about placing their child with a family...not because one parent is trying to get back at the other.
As for Abby from Iowa...who thinks I shouldn't be able to mother children because I can't get pregnant WOW. You have no clue. Could you imagine life without your kids?? Most girls' only dream in life is to become a mother. How dare you.
My husband had cancer twice starting at age 6. Radiation and Chemo left him infertile. He wanted to be a father more than anything. So, he should have to go through all that trauma and then not to be able to fulfill his dream?
Please be a little more sensitive to us who are trying to do the best we can with what we have got.
| Feb 27 2008 14:40 PM | Post #104 |
Yes, nobody can sit there and say this child will not be traumatized to a degree, her security will be compromised for a while, but she belongs with her father, i really, REALLY do not support adoption at all. If a couple cannot have a child, theres a reason for it. It seems the high percentage of adoptees that are abused in their "great families" would probably agree.
There is however the other area not explored yet, where they slowly hand custody over to cody...so that his daughter has a chance to get used to him and his family before she is sent to live with him, and i wouldnt be surprised if thats the outcome.
Either way, she should have never been put through this in the first place. Nothing appears to be wrong with cody, if the mother didnt want her...it appears that the real problem with this girl (which hasnt been discussed to my knowledge) is that she considers what she did selfless, even though her daughter had a chance to grow up with her real father. Who cares about how much money someone has or if they are married, etc... thats not what makes a family, i dont care what anyone says.
Im a broke, single mother of a 2 year old, and i think it would have been selfish of me to just hand her away to strangers to be rid of the responsibility of having to learn to get along with her father so she could have both of us in her life....(and i REALLY dont get along with him...believe it or not, worse than Cody and Ashley...but we keep it to ourselves, and away from the child...)
| Feb 18 2008 19:58 PM | Post #103 |
| Feb 15 2008 21:49 PM | Post #102 |
| Feb 12 2008 17:32 PM | Post #101 |
Your ip says you wrote your comment from Utah yet you put your location as Texas, are you visiting?
| Feb 12 2008 15:52 PM | Post #100 |
| Feb 07 2008 0:28 AM | Post #99 |
*Please, I'd like to keep my identity private in case this nut job Allen with her hateful attitude from harassing me. So, I've used a friends email address. Take care!
| Feb 05 2008 1:08 AM | Post #98 |
Any updates? I think of your family frequently. Is there an appeal going through or anything? My thoughts and prayers are with you.
| Feb 04 2008 14:06 PM | Post #97 |
If you are interested, please fax over your contact info. and the days and times of availability. Fax no.: (801) 466-4841
-WARNING-
*Adopters, Pro-Adoptionists, Adoption Agencies/Agents and/or Affiliates or Supporters thereof, DO NOT FAX--you are not welcome and you will be screened.
*This Fax does not accept blocked numbers.
| Jan 25 2008 23:41 PM | Post #96 |
My website is tylerandholly.info My children and I are victims of the Florida adoption industry. Please write to dateline@nbcuni.com and ask them to investigate. We need national media attention.
| Jan 22 2008 21:29 PM | Post #95 |
I need more people to sign my petition! I have gotten several hundred hand petitions but I've just gone up to people and said hey sign this!
http://www.thepetitionsite.com/1/boycott-utah-petition-untill-cody-bryn-and-josh-get-their-children-back-from-the-states-adoption
I think there needs to be a central petition in addition to the separate one's for each of the parents fighting to undue these maladoptions!
Thanks!
And keep up the good fight!
| Jan 18 2008 15:41 PM | Post #94 |
| Jan 17 2008 18:38 PM | Post #93 |
| Jan 16 2008 13:34 PM | Post #92 |
| Dec 30 2007 6:23 AM | Post #91 |
This website is terrific, please keep up the good work and know that I am rooting for you.
This also happened to my brother (who lost his daughter) and the slick LDS machine nearly convinced me to give up my son. Thankfully I did not.
This is an important issue that needs to be brought to light. Thank you so much for what you are doing ... my thoughts will be with you.
I will continue to check up on you and see how things are progressing. I wish you all the best. xoxo
| Dec 17 2007 8:30 AM | Post #90 |
| Dec 12 2007 15:48 PM | Post #89 |
http://cdapress.com/articles/2007/12/12/news/news03.txt%23blogcomments
Also for those of you who feel that a crime has been committed against you in Utah in order to deprive you of your child. You may want to go before the Justice panel and ask that a grand jury look into your situation. You only have to December 17 to do so.
http://www.sltrib.com/news/ci_7640431
| Nov 22 2007 22:06 PM | Post #88 |
The media is starting to write about what is going on all accross the country. Please do not stop writing to your elected officials and the Utah Attorney General and US Department of Justice.
Together we can stop this most henious activity.
| Nov 17 2007 21:36 PM | Post #87 |
The second one is called "Oh, Baby Baby" from the Houston Press dated June 7, 2007.
http://www.houstonpress.com/2007-06-07/news/oh-baby-baby/print
The third is from ABC News and The Associated Press in San Antonio Texas called"FDA Probing Embryo-Production Service"
http://abcnews.go.com/print?id=2791220
The forth is from the Salt Lake Tribune called "International adoption can be risky endeavor with shadowy agencies,heartbreak" dated June 18, 2007.
http://www.sltrib.com/parenting/ci_6166758
All I can say is. For heavens sake please do not stop writning to the Utah Legislature and Utah Attorney Generals Office along with your own representitives. As you can see by the first article. The Utah legislature is finally doing something about the baby selling because of the pressure being placed upon them by concerned people around the world.
In truth we stand.
